Tuesday, October 28, 2014

3 Step Antidote To The Scariest Things On The Planet

By Emily Bansuelo
 
Tis the season to be scared. I’m sure we could all share our scariest Halloween moments. The creepy neighbor down the street, who we all thought did experiments on cats. Or perhaps the scary woods that your friends dared you to walk through. I grew up with shows that freaked me out, “Goosebumps” and “Are You Afraid of the Dark?” I was never allowed to watch them, but come on, you know you all snuck around your parents to get freaked out of your mind. Now we have movies that I’m sure I would pee my pants watching. Growing up, being scared was a game, it was taken lightly. But in our world right now there’s a whole new way of getting scared. And we can’t take it lightly anymore.

There are phobias for practically everything. Everyone seems to be afraid of something. We have so many fears that are running around wildly in this generation, having their way with us. We have become people of worry and fear. All of a sudden a sickness that a few weeks ago few of us even knew existed is the most talked about sickness in the US; Ebola. I watched people around me talk about how we should start wearing masks, and shut down the airlines because the risk of us all contracting this disease. Allow me to give you a statistic, you have 1 in 13.3 million chance of contracting Ebola in the US. You have 1 in 2 million chance of falling out of your bed and dying. We have fed into the hysteria of what the world tells us rather than feeding into the peace God so readily has available to us. Yes, right now there is an epidemic of Ebola, in West Africa. But here in the United States, there is an epidemic of fear. And I have the antidote.
1.       Perfect love. 1 John 4:18
God has not given us a spirit of fear but a sound mind. If God isn’t giving us fear than who is? We have the choice to receive whatever is being given to us. The enemy is dishing out fear in bucket fulls and we are eating it right up. It’s time we spit out that cold dish, and dine on some perfect love instead. Because this dish, this love, has the ability to drive out all fear. So how do we experience perfect love? By loving each other. When we do this, God lives in us. And we are perfectly in Him. How unstoppable, how powerful we become when we begin living with perfect love.
2.       Listen to wisdom. Proverbs 1:33
When we listen to wisdom, we will live in peace and remain untroubled by fear of harm. Wisdom can come in many shapes and sizes. But the best place I’ve found wisdom is smack dab in the Word of God. I’ve said this before but it bears repeating, read a Proverb a day to begin. James even tells us that if we need wisdom, to ask for it and our generous God will give it to us! (James 1:5)
3.       Fear God... not man. Hebrews 13:6
This is the most important fear antidote I can give you. And it may sound a bit ironic. But when we fear God first, we will have nothing else to fear. Many have misunderstood and forgotten what it is like to “fear God”. We think it’s all about just having an awe and respect for Him and while that is in fact part of it, it goes much further than that. Whenever someone encounters God, their reaction is literal and utter fear. Isaiah had a vision of heaven, John saw Jesus after his resurrection, Mary encountered the angel of the Lord, and after they are stricken with fear but almost immediately all of them are told, “Do not fear”.  It’s this crazy concept that when we learn to fear God, we don’t have to fear anything else.
The truth of the matter is that by fearing something we are unknowingly empowering it.  When we fear spiders we walk around them no matter how far off course it takes us.  When we fear people we become anxious around them, our minds consumed with completely irrational and terrifying ideas of what may happen.  When we fear the future we lose sleep and sometimes even our appetites trying to think of ways to change or even fix it.  Whenever we fear something we change our behaviors, our attitudes, and our direction- but that is the beauty of it.  When we fear the right thing- God- we are given a new behavior, a new attitude, and a new direction.  So go ahead and fear.  Just fear the right thing.  Because what you choose will be the difference between living in bondage or in freedom.
 
 
1 John 4:18
"There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life—fear of death, fear of judgment—is one not yet fully formed in love."

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